Researchers at the Nemours Foundation report that consistency is the most important ingredient needed to discipline your child. Consistency in your own behaviors sets an example to your child so that he can best learn self-discipline as well. Become a role model to teach your child discipline, and look for other creative ways to teach your child discipline.
Waiting Games
Being able to wait for things is a vital characteristic that, when learned in childhood, translates into happiness and success in adulthood, report educators at the Alabama Extension Center. Teach effective waiting skills in a number of ways according to your child's stage of development. Bring toys and books to the doctor's office and other meeting places when you know you'll have to wait. Explain to your child that preparing for a wait can help pass the time. The next time you are caught in a traffic jam with your child, tell him that this is a good time to talk about the day or the upcoming weekend plans. Pass waiting time with counting games. Avoid letting your child see you anxious or angry when you have to wait.
Positive Reinforcement
Child psychologists at Family Education report that by the time children enter elementary school, they really need the confidence they've accumulated at home from positive reinforcement. Positive communication reinforces good behavior and can help to eliminate bad behavior. Look your child in the eyes when delivering a positive statement. Tell your child that he is bright enough to figure out how to finish a task. Ask for his input and listen to his answer. Recognize your child's desires by acknowledging them and explaining when they can be fulfilled and how. Set up a reward system that your child will enjoy. Allow him to play 1 hour of video games for an hour of homework. If he picks up all his toys, he can go outside. Give your child chores to do that come with some kind of payment, such as an allowance to help build self-discipline and a work ethic.
Martial Arts
Trainers at Warrior Martial Arts report that children can learn positive self-discipline through activities such as karate and other martial arts. In addition to the physical exercise and training children can receive, martial arts practices teach values and build character. Youngsters can learn humility, self-control, respect, patience and concentration from karate instructors. They are taught self-respect and respect of others. By joining a group that imposes discipline and rules of conduct, children learn how to adjust their attitudes to fit in and find appropriate ways to express themselves. They can develop pride in their accomplishments and how to set and achieve goals as they earn higher belts.
