As you age, you face a variety of new challenges, especially involving taking care of your own aging body and any health related issues that may arise. If you are the primary caregiver for your elderly spouse, you understand it can be challenging to provide care for an elderly person when you too are older. Caring for an elderly spouse may require asking for assistance when care-taking and time involved become challenging.
Step 1
Talk with your spouse's primary care physician. This should be your first step in giving the right care for your elderly spouse. Be sure to ask any questions regarding his physical care, how and when to give medications and warning signs regarding illness.
Step 2
Counsel with social workers. Ask your physician to refer you to a social service agency that can provide additional resources and counseling if needed. The National Association of Professional Geriatric Care Managers explains that a professional geriatric care manager can assist you with guidance and resources that will help your spouse achieve his maximum functional potential. She can also put you in touch with gerontology, nursing, psychology and home health aid programs in your local area. A social worker also assists you with financial issues relating to funding your loved one's needs or illness.
Step 3
Acquire equipment through a durable medical equipment company. Equipment such as a hospital bed, over-the-bed table, egg crate mattress, trapeze, Hoyer lift and wheelchair will assist you in the care of your spouse, explains Durable Medical Equipment Centers of Medicare. Essential equipment needs such as an oxygen tank or a breathing treatment machine will help make your spouse comfortable while you provide the best care.
Step 4
Utilize home health care resources. When caring for a spouse at home, you can't do it all. Home health care providers give care in the home and provide much needed respite to you. Nurses, home health aides and physical therapists can make sure your spouse is healthy and comfortable. Volunteers can come to the house to relieve you so you can sleep, run errands or take care of your own needs.
Step 5
Take care of your own physical and mental health. Making sure you are mentally and physically well should be a priority, explains Aging Parents and Elder Care. If you are overwhelmed, find a hobby or activity to do to help clear your mind and focus on your emotional and physical well-being.
Tips and Warnings
- If your spouse's care becomes overwhelming, always ask for help. Failure to care for your loved one could result in neglect or lack of proper care.
- If you suffer from physical health problems, don't try to lift or help your spouse without assistance---this could result in strain or injury.
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